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Anonymous  

About midnitedove1111

Native Cree from WE

midnitedove1@yahoo.com

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j w  

money for moving....

Hi really don't like hand outs. But this is a time when I have prayed and god guided me to this site. Me,my wife and three small children recently moved into a house in hammond in, the landlord didn't tell us the home was none fit to live in, we gave him all we had. $1400 we saved up. Now the gas and lights are shut off, he won't give us our money back and we sleeps in our van. I work five days a week but can't save a dime because gas, food and my children. My wife starts school this month and I feel helpless. We found apartments, but have no money, please help..... Jim
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lilmiz1  

AN INSPIRATIONAL PASSAGE written by my Aunt I never met

Im sharing this next passage, because it is one that I believe can help a whole lot of people here, at least in an inspirational and spiritual way. This was written by my aunt, her name is Virginia Alleene Silliman. She is my mom's sister, and she died 60 years ago this month from ovarian cancer at the age of just 22 years old--back in a time when having cancer was a guaranteed death sentence. My mom tells me very amazing and interesting stories about her. One being that she was highly religious, taught sunday school, was very loving, caring, compassionate person. She had a baby, that died, and it was then that she discovered she had cancer. A few years after Virginia died, her baby was exhumed and placed on top of her in her grave.

As the story goes, what Im about to post here, she wrote it November 30th 1950, a little over a year before her death. It was sealed until after she died, and it was published in a local paper at the time ( I had it revived in our paper about four years ago on Mother's Day). I recently had re-discovered this passage, and being that I am going though some horrendous health concerns, I find this to be very comforting to me, if she only knew that 60 years later her niece would find comfort in those same words. I wish I had met her, but in a way, I feel I know her. Here's the passage she wrote:

WHY WAS I BORN?

For years now, I've been asking myself why was I born? For what reason did the dear Lord bless me with life? I've pondered and wondered, searched and researched. I've sat in church and prayed. Ive prayed. Ive prayed at home --Dear Lord what can I do to help Thee in Thy great work? Wilt Thou reveal unto me my special task?I've tried to be loyal in my church attendance. I've tried to live Christianly. Ive sung the praises of the Lord with all my heart. I began teaching Sunday School when I was fourteen. But all this was not enough. I still found unrest.

Then, as you know, a little over a year ago my troubles began, but because you've been such kind friends, a loyal family, and a devoted husband, you made my troubles yours also.

You've sent me words of cheer, flowers, fruit and candy. You've visited me. You've done my washings and ironings, my housecleaning and cooking. You've rubbed my back. You gave blood for me. You've worried about me. You cared for me in every way imaginable, and then you prayed for me. What angels of mercy you have been, Surely, God has blessed you for the kindness you've shown me.

In these ways, you've made my sufferings much easier. And although I've lost a baby, made four trips to the hospital and five to the operating room within the past year, I haven't lost faith in The Lord. Matter of fact, I've come to know and love Him more than I ever have. I've found Him to be such a wonderful friend that Ive been able to live through many many unpleasant hours of sickness and pains. Even when the odds were against me, I've trusted The Lord, and He has helped me get strong again.

But most important of all, YOU have noticed this. You have seen what The Lord has done for me, and you have found Him for yourself, also. Your faith has been strengthened, too. I know for I've been watching, and I've seen you grow to be more spiritually-minded. And because you have, I have found peace of mind. I feel that this has been my task here on earth--to bring you to The Lord. And even though I have suffered, I have no regrets. I would suffer again for such a cause.

Even now some people are wondering how long I will live, but I have no fear of dying. If The Lord decided to take me, I only pray that when that time comes, you--my friends, family, and husband--will have found enough faith--through my faith--to bear the sorrow of our parting. I pray thee be strong, for only then can The Lord consider my task well-done.

Till we meet again, remember I loved you all--especially you, my dearest husband, and I've found much happiness in knowing you. Your friend, kinfolk, and wife, Virginia

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Anora Eldorath  

Don't look a gift horse...

I actually used to hate this saying growing up, but there is a great truth in it. If someone is trying to help you because you asked for help it is not polite to mock them because they are helping in the way they can help. Sure, during my struggles with monies recently I wanted very much to get that cash in hand. I never did, but things worked out via another blessing. However, I never looked at those trying to help and said "You're not helping me". I told them thanks for their help and continued to speak with them.

You see, some of the best help we can receive as members of the human race is emotional support and guidance during our mundane struggles. In the end, even with all the monies and mundane comforts in the world people are empty without friends, support, and those things that make us part of the cosmic spiritual universe. I may not be able to provide everyone who asks me with monies, I can barely get paid for doing tutoring and tarot readings but I can offer guidance, emotional support, and friendship. It is my hope that people will accept me for what I can give, and not reject me for what I cannot give.

Namaste-Anora

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Anora Eldorath  

Cleaning the bathroom

Cleaning the bathroom

Help for the significant other

Anora Eldorath 2010

I have decided to do a series of short articles on helping one’s significant other around the home. After much time in my own relationships, and watching that of friends I’ve come to the conclusion that part of the confusion comes from simply not knowing how to do or perform a task. It is not that the partner is unwilling, in a sense, it is that they do not know and are embarrassed to ask how the task should be done. It is not to say that every significant other falls into this category, but to help prevent arguments and heated discussions world wide, I have taken to the paper to outline my simple solutions to these places of interest.

So, the first area I’ve decided to march into is the bathroom. Oh, it’s the dreaded place of filth and villainy. It at times makes Jabba’s palace look like a hospital room and this is definitely something we want to try to eradicate with a bit of instruction. Though all of us have our own methodology for tackling this unsavory job, I’ll be putting my own unique twist on the subject, as well as throwing out some thoughts here and there to keep in mind when doing this task or any task we speak about in the near future.

One of my quick solutions is to know that the vacuum is our friend. I have found, for myself, that living in a home where long hair is the norm and shedding seems to match that of Chewbacca a vacuum can save a great deal of aggravation. Simply use your attachment nozzle before you begin to get all of the hair off the floor, counters, sink, and tub. This also is nice because you’ll have far less small dirt to worry about when washing the floor.

After this, I simply stash the waste can, and laundry bin outside the door. This keeps them out of the way for when I wash the floor. I then start with the sink. Carefully remove all items from the sink and place them on the back of your toilet (unless already occupied in which case you can place them safely outside the door in the floor). Use a soft scrub soap or gentle spray cleaner and apply to all parts of the sink, along with the counter. Now, I have a sonic scrubber that I invested in which saves a bit of time, take an old toothbrush and scrub the crevices of the nozzle on all sides. Do not forget to get inside the faucet so that you can get any build up and prevent the spread of germs. Return items to their proper places when you are finished.

After I am done with this I move on to the mirror. Wipe the mirror down with proper cleaning solutions designed for windows. This will cut down on streaking and residue on the surface of the mirror. In the past using old newspapers were advisable, but today with the change in inks this can lead to even further streaking so using a plain cotton cloth is advisable. You can use an old cotton (clean) diaper. You can also purchase pre-soaked wipes at local grocers that work as well. However, if you are environmentally conscious re-using cleaning cloths is the best.

I then move on to the toilet. This is more then just a quick wipe of the top of the seat to make it “look pretty”. You need to use a little elbow grease. Wipe down the water tank, top lid, the ledge between the water tank and seat, the sides of the bowl, and the entire base of the toilet including the back. I do the inside of the toilet last. Use a bit of toilet cleaner designed for inside the toilet and a brush. Scrub the underneath of the rim because this is where germs grow. Again, a bit of elbow grease goes a long way to get all the nasty grime done and gone.

I then move on to the tub. Again, this is not just about closing the shower curtain/door and running a bit of water. Elbow grease is needed to get all of the soap scum. The use of a good soap scum cleaner is your best solution. You can purchase these in environmentally friendly versions, but one is recommended to make your life easier. If you have persistent soap scum you may want to try spraying the shower down before you clean the bathroom so that by the time you reach the tub it has had time to set. I own a sonic scrubber and I have found it to be a life saver where soap scum is concerned, but any scrub brush will work. Use a soft scrub cleanser and begin at the top of the shower and work your way down. If you have items that you keep in your shower area removes them before cleaning and replaces them when you are done. Do not forget to scrub the shower head and faucets the same way you did the sink. Remember, this water is meant to clean you and germs do grow in wet environments. Proper cleaning cuts down on these pests. If you have a detachable shower head you can use that to rinse all of the soap down the drain, if not simply use a glass or pitcher to clean off the soap residue. Do not forget to clean your shower curtain on a regular basis as well. Spray it down with a gentle soap scum remover, let set, and then rinse gently. This will allow you to keep your shower curtain longer.

Once you are done with all of these items, give your ceiling fan a quick clean. Most have an easy eject system consisting of two prongs-one on either side. You can use an old toothbrush or a sonic brush to clean off the dust, followed up by a dust cloth to wipe down any residue. This will keep your fan in good working order if remembered often. If your fan collects dust, simply use a vacuum attachment to clean this out.

 

If you have bric-a-brac, pictures, and other items in the bathroom make sure these receive a thorough dusting often. Make sure that all items are put up in their proper place, and not left lying about.

Once all of these items are done, cabinets wiped down, you are ready to wash the floor. Using a steam mop is the best clean you can receive in today’s technology, but it certainly is not the only way to clean. A swifter jet or those like it are great for every day cleaning, but if you are like most and can only get to your bathroom once a week it is best to simply put the gloves on and get down on your knees. Make sure your water is hot and soapy. There is much debate to the use of harsh chemicals, and though I happen to like to use bleach now and then I respect that some of the natural cleaners can be just as good for cleaning germs. The prime ones that grow in your bathroom are Candida as well as Streptococcus, Staphylococcus and Lactobacillus, and a few others that are just as problematic. Make sure to get a cleaner for your floors that will eliminate or at least cut down on these bacteria.

Allow your bathroom to dry, and freshen it up with a vanilla or lavender scented candle.


While you are cleaning, keep in mind that this is a sacred act. Each act we do on a daily basis is in a sense a connection between our own souls and the Divine Cosmic force. It matters not what path or faith you follow, this is a mind set that can be adapted regardless of your path. For some, the word “chore” has become a fuse for arguments and resentments on both sides of the relationship. And yet, it is something that is a must in order to stay healthy. To change one’s attitude before taking on this task will allow one to enjoy and reap the benefits of this part of life. The cleaning of the bathroom no longer becomes a task of dirty floors, urine stains, and smells, but one of mindful meditation. It becomes the place in which we connect with the Divine, in which we scour away all negativity in the area in which we cleanse our physical body. It now incorporates the cleansing of our spiritual body.

Namaste!

 

 

For Further Reading


What Are Germs?

The Real Truth about Bacteria

Myth: Toilet seats are the dirtiest things in the bathroom

 

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RMommyJulie  

Spirituality

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smmrbrze  

knowing ..is the difference

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Knowing, is the difference

Posted June 10

what do you know about me? or i about you? how much time have we taken( with the purest intentions) to get to know each other? when you see me pass do you offer charity in a smile, or a silent greeting of peace? when was the last time you looked at a tree,animal,lake,ocean,moon,sun,flower or even felt the wind and thought.."what a wonderful CREATOR"? what are we here for in this world? to work, play, sleep and indulge..work, play, sleep and indulge..until time has gotten away from us.. then what? there will come a time for all of us when we will want to have back the one thing that no one can have..time. what do we know about our CREATOR? what do we care? are we too busy enjoying the things that we have created in the world, to remember the cause of it all? from the womb, to the earth, to the tomb, those are our three stops. think of it as a one way train ride; we arrive at the station, take the ride, and get off at our destination. the longest part of that journey is spent just enjoying the ride without regards of the final stop... we should all get to know and remeber daily our CREATOR during this short stay in this world. learning and teaching is good, but truly knowing.. is the difference.

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LookOnTheBrightSide  

Checking In and saying thank you

Hi, I was checking in. The past week has been a busy and very productive one. I update the OPMusicHouse website with current events and announcements.

The most recent additions are that I am spotlighted on this week's Sound Magazine radio show on Citadel stations at 1.24.10 at 6am. It is my story about rising above domestic violence (mind you, 22 years of it), and doing good in giving back.

The more I write, the more I realize, which helps me to grow and be a better person. Being a better person to me, means making a positive impact in people's lives. Based on comments on the article about me in WNY Women in Business, I am have been an inspiration to several people. That fulfills my sense of purpose.

But I am greedy, and want to inspire more people. I feel that I suffered for all those years for a reason. The reason unfurls with every comment and feedback I get, saying that I made them smile, or feel worthwhile, or helped them to see something they didn't see before.

I feel that I was brushed off and set on my feet by God himself, and that the inner glow and burn I feel every minute of every day is His "lantern of hope" and my job is to hold it high.

Call me kooky if you will, it's my story, my belief. And I told you before that the more I talk the more I am rewarded by visions of beauty. That is the reason I don't leave the house without my digital camera. This way I can take pictures to provide the backup, so people know that I do spread good and truth.

And I'm not doing this for money. As I type I have some severely delinquent bills and I just wait for things like my water to be turned off. I have not been paid a cent for writing, and my column, for examiner.com, albeit the reader subscriptions and positive vibe, owes me a total of $4. (Yes, four dollars).

What doesn't kill me only makes me stronger. Maybe I am crossing the line of faith and jumping into stupidity. I don't know. But at least if I go down, its for the right reasons. I am being the best I can be.

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mwpeters  

Prayer Works

On Dec. 22 I submitted a prayer request to a radio station in Bethesda Md. which was to be prayed upon by them on Wed. Dec 23 in relation to our troubles in my previous blog. On Christmas Eve my wifes former employer called and gave her the sad news of her having a stroke. Long story short she offered my wife a full time salary position with paid day care and all of her clients. I'll be praying for her health. It just feels like devine intervention at such a difficult time. I wish nothing to be taken from anyone for my own gain.

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mamashe/sheshe  

About spiritual/Empathica

comment to Empathica:---You are truly a delightful soul and it is so caring and generous of you to share your love for all humanity. I enjoy your beautiful pictures and your words of hope and peace. I too meditate daily and constantly send positive thoughts out into our universe. We all have our higher power and call it many different names but when all is said and done there is only one true source and I call it God. I find my greatest peace and answers to questions during my mediations. We here on aidpage are honored to have you here, you have given us messeges of hope and to look for the good in people. I get great calmness reading your posts and you have indeed blessed us here on aidpage. Your Friend  sheshe030

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Anonymous  

About spiritual/Empathica

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Gary25  

This article was good for returning to life

Self Motivation and Positive Attitude
By Tess Thompson

Self motivation and positive attitude are almost intertwined. A positive attitude is a prerequisite to self motivation and therefore it is essential that if one wants to stay motivated at all times one should adopt a positive mental attitude http://www.nativeremedies.com/products/mindsoothe-emotional-wellness-info.html. 

However, attaining a positive attitude is not easy. It requires you to be in a state of general happiness, which can be attained only if you are at peace with yourself. 

Man has tried to ‘find happiness’ for years. But it is ironical that he searches for this happiness in places far and wide while it can be found only within oneself. The real search for happiness starts by looking ‘inside’ and understanding the real purpose of ones life. It is important to realize the happiness is relative in nature and that while some find it in work, achievement and success, others find it in love, relationships and family ties, affectionate friendships and in faith. 

It is also important to understand that is one tries to seek happiness in external material gains or even in external manifestations of love from others, there is only disappointment to be found. The main idea is to accept your strengths, weaknesses, capabilities, situation and life as it is. Complete acceptance of the situation leads to a feeling of contentment and happiness at what you have.

A positive perspective towards all events in life can lead to happiness and emotional wellness http://www.nativeremedies.com/products/mindsoothe-emotional-wellness-info.html. As the saying goes, “I was pining about the fact that I did not have shoes, when I saw a man without feet”.

However, all of the above does not mean that you should lead yourself to total contentment and complacency. It is necessary that you dissociate your happiness from the daily efforts that you need to make to make your life better. By all means, set material objectives for yourself and do everything in your scope to make them possible. But do not allow the success of these efforts to rule your overall attitude and well being. 

Over time, you will realize that it is this positive attitude and the ability to motivate yourself under any circumstances that aids you in the process of achieving your goals. Optimism can break the dismal ropes of negativity and rationalism and can help you accomplish tasks that otherwise seem impossible. A positive attitude can help you take failure in your stride. 

When you are ‘happy’ and have a positive attitude, you do not need to rely on external motivation to achieve and accomplish goals. On the other hand, in the absence of self motivation, initial spurts in motivation caused by external sources, tend to wear off after the initial euphoria. 

A spiritual understanding of life, a positive attitude, proper perspective of the events of life can help you achieve a continuous state of motivation. Such a high level of self motivation can stand the test of mood swings http://www.nativeremedies.com/products/mindsoothe-emotional-wellness-info.html, transient depression or failures. In my case this also helped for recovery!
Gary 

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dbsnk  

what's new

I just wanted  to give everyone an update on our family and life.  Things have been very busy and hectic as always with 7 kids.  I have been running so much, some days I don't know if I'm coming or going.  The holidays were tough trying to get the kids a little something under the tree, but they did learn a valuable lesson, that it's not about gifts or what they get.  They did each get a gift valued at $50, then we took and handed out to complete strangers $100 total to 5 people.  I saw posted on our local Craigslist, a couple of families who were needing help for different reasons, granted $20 wasn't alot, but it was something, and on Christmas eve, I wanted to go where we used to know alot of homeless people lived or hung out and give some more money (I only had $30 in my pocket), and saw only one, he was in the middle of the road in a wheel chair holding a can of beer and dressed in rags.  Now we don't normally like to give to people who drink but this was Christmas and if that was what made him happy then so what and who was I to judge him, we drove up beside him and I rolled my window down and handed him $10, he was so happy, it made me happy.  We drove around a little more and found nobody, so my husband asked how much do you have and I told him, we went back to where the man in the wheel chair was and gave him the other $20, and if you could've seen his face and how he jumped in his chair, it totally made my Christmas eve.  As we were driving home, my husband had wished that he had thought of a lady who worked at his plant on a temp basis who was laid off and struggling, I looked down in my purse and there was $20 I didn't know we had, so we stopped by her house and gave it to her.  We were fortunate enough to have gotten a pay check before Christmas and was able to get for our kids, dinner and wanted to make someone's day even if it was small, as pay back for my loan company working with me earlier in the month.  Our foster daughter spent a week in the hospital due to an unknown illness, she still may need surgery, we're not sure.  The three kids who are in our custody, mom hasn't been around since September of last year suddenly showed up and wanted to have the kids leave with her and spend time with them.  Now she wants to get them back, but they don't want to go, they want us to adopt them, but that isn't possible right now and children services is trying to force them to visit each week with her.  She told them that if she doesn't regain custody then she will kill herself, and is trying to get them to steal from us, a real mess.  My husbands job like many are either cutting back or laying off, he is now down from 42 hour work week to 36 and is having to use his vacation time to make full week pays.  We were hoping to get some taxes back this year but that didn't happen, because we're needing to do some home improvements.  The other day I thought my house was on fire, I was sitting on the computer when I heard a loud bang and metal fall to the floor in the basement and then suddenly smelled a real strong smoke odor and called the fire department, but by the time they got here there was nothing and my house was safe, but now I worry about leaving my house and coming home to nothing, and my pets burning.  (I also rescue stray cats and an occassional dog.  We take them in, feed them, try to find their owner, if no luck then rehome them or if they need vet care, I work with the lady who comes in the neighborhood and feeds strays to get them taken care of.)  We are now at risk of foreclosure on our home, and pray daily that Heavenly Father will help pull through this like he did the van.  It just seems like when we get paid something comes up and it takes every dime.  I can't even afford to fix my van (which I was hoping nothing would need done other than oil with it being an 07, but think they sold me a lemon, it needs so much work, I do what I need to have it run.)  I try not to let it bother me or get me down as there really isn't much I can do about it, I can only do with what ever I have, and pray to get thru the day.  Most days it works, and listening to my local christian radio station helps too, and then of course the good ol books, the Bible and Book of Mormon.  I hope you enjoyed reading.
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Anora Eldorath  

Medusa: Transformative Goddess, Solar Divinity

Just some wisdom I came across today. Enjoy, be inspired, and know that all is as it should be.

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The hero put Medusa's head down for a moment,
remembering not to scratch it on sharp rocks.
There was a small soft patch of seaweed and of fern,
and Medusa having been a daughter of the sea
was welcomed by the plants there as a sister.
And her power transformed them: each stem,
each leaf, each tendril hardened into stone.
Sea nymphs, excited, brought more seaweed
to Medusa's head, to watch the magic happen
as fading green turned into semiprecious stones
and filigrees and dainty lace. This how coral came to be:
from those weeds petrified by Medusa's gaze.
~Ovid, Metamorphoses
 
Medusa is one of those ancient goddesses who was converted into a monster by later cultures. The familiar myth shows her as a terrifying figure, a snake-haired woman who turns stone anyone who looks upon her. Yet this winged, angelic figure was once a solar divinity, a great goddess whose very name means "ruler of humanity". Hers was the magic of transformation, which comes through centuries after her demonization, in the words of the Roman poet Ovid.


We demonize those whose power we fear. There would be no need to call her monstrous if Medusa did not represent a kind of power which makes some feel uncomfortable. She is like an inkblot test: we see in her the very thing we fear. That is Medusa's true mirror. Look into her face, and you will be frozen with your own inner terrors. And from that moment, you can move toward transformation, because you will know what you fear.
~Patricia Monaghan, The Goddess Companion (318)

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Meamya  

Spiritual Cinema Circle Is Offering Free Trial

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Anonymous  

Judd

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Petevocals  

Petevocals

I am happy go lucky and independent. I just think it is time to ask the world for some help.
I am optimistic, very enthusiastic even when I am down! I like to bring others up to my high-end energy level. Like to think of myself as spiritual type of person as well.
I love art and creating art. I write music about my emotions
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Dee86  

Dee86

-Makeup Artist

-only child

-live in Hollywood

-family oriented

-have very few friends that I consider close to me

-love to laugh

-love being girly

-love doing "guy-like" activities (changing a tire, fixing stuff around the house, getting dirty, etc.)

-love to travel

-love anything artistic

-music is my first language

-love to debate

-I'm spiritual but not religious

-I have a cat named Kasper and it MUST be spelled with a "K"

-I'm obsessed with my DVR system

-I can watch sports but definately don't understand them at least 90% of the time

 

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Nowah  

Nowah

I am a christian, i am very spiritual. I want so much better for my daughters life and my own. I am artistic, humorus, funny, truthful, witty, fun to be around. I care about people that are hurting i guess cause i know how it feels.
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ENGEL64  

ENGEL64

I AM A SINGLE MOTHER WITH 2 CHILDREN LIVING AT HOME. I DO EVERY THING ON MY OWN. I AM STRUGELING TO MAKE IT . MONTH BY MONTH I NEED TO WATCH HOW MUCH FOOD WE HAVE,  THE BABY NEEDS HER FOOD ASWELL AND THEY ARE NOT CHEAP..i HAVE RAISED 4 OTHER CHILDREN AND NONE OF THEM ALL EXEPT FOR ONE ,THAT IS MY SON, HE DECIDED HE WANTS TO DO WHAT EVER HE WANTS.  MY LIFE HAS BEEN A VERY BIG MESS AND HARD TO LIVE.I DO NOT HAVE ANY FAMILIY HER AT ALL.i HAVE FIBROMYALGIA REALLY BAD IT HURTS.I ALSO HAVE SEVERAL MENTAL CONDITIONS FOR WHICH I AM TAKING.THERE IS REALLY MORE TO SAY BUT IT IS LATE AND I AM NOT FEELING VERY WELL AND AM VERY TIRED. SO,IF YOU COULD PLEASE CALL. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR TAKING THE TIME TO READ THIS.

                                                                                                       SINCERELY YOURS,

                                                                                                       ALLYSON ADAMS

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